Tim Teeman
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Everyone is so post-gay now, it's probably not the done thing to shed a tear over the last night of G-A-Y at the Astoria in Central London this Saturday. With its simple delight in fluffy disco and boozy, cruisey merriment, G-A-Y seems a dinosaur in the modern landscape of gay indie clubs, mixed clubs and the pansexual, drag-tastic dives of Shoreditch, where the beestung-lipped boy in eyeshadow probably has a girlfriend who's cool with it all.
But sad I am for the passing of G-A-Y. Jeremy Joseph, the club's pixie-like promoter, says it will reopen somewhere else, but it won't be the same - for good and ill, for its fans and detractors, G-A-Y at the Astoria is a gay cultural landmark, and even though it smells of chips and the Astoria has seen better days, the club has a resounding pre-eminence. While Joseph's G-A-Y has been going since 1993, the night began life as Bang! way back in 1976. It's a gay grand-daddy in a tight T-shirt.
As the club's capital-lettered, branded moniker implies, G-A-Y is gay and then some. It doesn't try to be clever or jaded. Instead it serves up, weekly, a cacophonous, fizzing party, the centrepiece of which is a performance by a pop star. Madonna, Kylie, Mariah Carey, Cyndi Lauper, Pink, Enrique Iglesias (and a lot worse - step forward Caprice) have appeared at G-A-Y: Iglesias generously offering up his ass to be fondled. Joseph doesn't think that the G-A-Y brand is outdated: “We've survived longer than any other gay club. Does that sound unsuccessful to you?”
G-A-Y encompasses not just the Saturday-night club but also two Soho bars. Along with Heaven, it is the first, most visible homo port of call not just for foreign visitors but for 16-year-olds coming out. Its young crowd sets it apart: if you are over the age of 25 you feel ancient.
Joseph says that he has decided to ship out because he is fed up with having “the axe of Crossrail hanging over my head”. He still doesn't know if or when the Astoria will be knocked down to make way for London's high-speed rail link, but this week Crossrail received Royal Assent, which Joseph took to be “a message - the time is right to go”.
Joseph says that it is getting harder and harder to show stars around the building when it's in such a bad state. But he'll be emotional on Saturday night, he admits - his energy and ability to get stars to perform at G-A-Y have given the club an enviable profile. Open the tabloids on a Monday morning and there will be a picture of, say, McFly dropping their pants on stage.
The most dramatic appearance was possibly that of Kylie Minogue on stage, post-cancer operation, alongside her sister Dannii. That night I had been out at Ghetto, just behind G-A-Y, and was accosted by two sweet and breathless young guys on the night bus, eager to share the news (and pictures taken on their mobile phones). Over the years, G-A-Y has played a part in mobilising support for significant gay political campaigns, such as Section 28, the age of consent and gays and the military.
Joseph has had many messages from G-A-Yers young and old in the past few days. “It was the first place they went to when they came out - or before they came out; the place they went to be themselves if they were having problems with families or colleagues. I've even had messages such as ‘I met my boyfriend ten years ago at G-A-Y. If you hadn't been there we'd never have met'.”
Joseph won't say where or when the club will reopen. He is being very cagey about what will happen on Saturday night, too. “Lots of acts” will be performing - he says that Kylie and Madonna are unavailable, but is this a decoy?
The evening isn't about the “names”, he says strenuously, or he would publicise them. It's about saying farewell to the club. All will be revealed when the show starts at 1am. Joseph will make a speech - “I've been trying to compose one on the running machine but I keep getting stuck” - and a grand finale (prepare for glitter guns and tears) is planned for 4.15am.
For Joseph - and me, it turns out - the song that best sums up G-A-Y is Kylie's Better the Devil You Know. For the past 15 years he has played it at 12.30am each week.
“It's one of the world's best pop songs,” he says with absolute authority. “When you hear that first ‘Woo-ooohhh-ohhh' in the opening bars, you just know...” And his voice tails off but I know what he means. Jeremy, see you on the dancefloor at 12.30am.
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It is very sad to see the end of G-A-Y at the Astoria. I first went in February 1976 (to Bangs as it was then) and have been going regularly since, sometimes twice a week. I always loved the music, the free fun atmosphere....one could be oneself and enjoy. Yes, I have very fond memories.......
John Stone, London,
Wow, A friend of mine just saw Cyndi Lauper perform there last week (she was excellent!), so this is surprising,
but Yes hopefully the new one will be just as cool as the old one..
shannon , Lafayette,
I've been to London twice and went to G-A-Y 3 times! It was my best nights in a club EVER! There was the music I like, fun & freedom feeling 'round, I felt comfortable with myself & my tastes, not at all a stranger there, except for the bar where the Gin Fizz I asked for was some unknown cocktail :)
RV, Rennes, France
OMG... I am just shattered. As a visitor to London from Dubai, where I make my home, G-A-Y is always my first port of call. I have many memories of the place, and will be watching out for its new incarnation! I hope the promoters can maintain the same spirit!
Quentin, Dubai,
30 odd years ago when I was a young guy & just "out" - an evening at Bang was a highlight - whenever I hear I Feel Love by Donna Summer it reminds me of those times. Bang was also the first place to have a video screen & showed Dont Go Breaking My Heart by Elton and Kiki regularly. R.I.P.
David, Maidenhead, UK
I was a lost gay tourist roaming the streets of Soho, and then it appeaerd and just went in and had the best night of my life. Met a brazilian guy, we went back the next noght, together of course!!! It was until later that i found out that G-A-Y was the venue where Madonna launched Confessions!
Manuel, Guatemala, Guatemala
G-A-Y, what a fabulous place. Fantastic music, hot guys and amazing acts. It is the place to go in London just like you would go to see Buckingham Palace. My husband and I will miss it, but I'm sure the new G-A-Y will be just as cool. See you soon. Have an amazing farewell party!
Jack, Toronto, Canada
I lived around the corner from G-A-Y when I lived in London between 2001-2002. Fab place! Very sad to see it go.
SAdams, Miami, USA
I suspect it's only the deluded minority who are post-gay, whatever that is. In a way I wish I'd visited G-A-Y for the giggle factor, but I'd probably have been chucked out for laughing at the oddities, would-be trendies and duff performers. Nah, the world won't miss the demise of another naff club
Paul, Leeds,
I had one of the best nights of my life at G-A-Y while visiting friends in London. I'll carry it in my memory forever. So sad!
Adam Gebhardt, Kansas City, USA
An end of an era.. as simple as that.. this builingshould have been listed and this opinion is shared by young and old.. Jeremy you're a credit to the gay scene
Kenny, London, Middlesex
This news is breaking my heart. I lost my virginity well not in the club, but just a few short hours after leaving the club. T_T It's my favourite club in the world, and I've been to a lot of clubs. I saw Melanie C for the first time there, and that was the most momentous occasion.
Kat, San Antonio, USA
This too was my first gay club I ever went to, where I met the first guy I lost my virginity to. A very sad day indeed!
Matt, Phoenix, USA
NO NO NO! I am seriously going to CRY! I lost my virginity there, 3 TIMES!! That is the best club I have ever been to! I actually traveled to London one time SIMPLY dance there! I was there for BLUE in 2002, and again last year and had the time of my life! My heart is broken! I will miss GAY!
Adam , Phoenix, Arizona, United States
I lived in London for 7 years and made some of my best memories at G-A-Y. Friends from all over world came to visit me, while I was at Uni and I made certain that they experienced being on the dancefloor at the Astoria. Thank you for all those wonderful times. Don't stay away too long!
Joe, Washington DC, USA
Very sad. I have met very good friends there on holiday. Friends I still talk to years later. G-A-Y provided my first memories of London. =(
James, Arizona, USA, USA
I was there on the 12th July (my birthday) for Cyndi Lauper. It was fantastic. I have only been a handful of times but it is such an iconic building in Soho/London. Its such a shame it is coming to an end
Lee Dalgleish, Medway, Kent, England
Sad news... G-A-Y was where we all went on Fridays after school, back in the day, in school uniform... and my gay friends had their first bacardi breezer fuelled kisses there... good times!
Emily, London,
Steps at G-A-Y - aah, the memories!!
steve, brighton, UK
Just reading this transports me back to being 16! I had my first naughty dance and kiss with a woman on that dance floor - i am turning beetroot thinking about it!
Neil sums it up brillantly!
claire, London,
Here's to the memory of Colin Peters who was the owner of 'bang' at the Astoria. He pushed the boundaries back then when the public mood was a lot more hostile and less tolerant. The gay youngster today owe him a huge debt of gratitude. 'Tis truly the end of an era.
Brian Roberts , Plymouth, Devon UK
is the G-A-Y generation growing up or simpy transferring (like the rest of the population) to the shiney new internet world of gaydar and mand8.com !!?
Bob Jones, London,
G-A-Y at the Astoria was great, I have very font memories from a very long time ago when I'd first started to come out to friends going to G-A-Y and having the time of my life... you might grow out of the place, but god, it was fun!
Neil, Notting Hill,